If you find yourself in a situationship where you are putting forth most/all of the effort, stop.
If balance and reciprocation is not consistent, If the vibe and energy is not evident and aligned, if you do not feel valued, stop.
This is what our parents and grandparents meant by what do you/does he or she bring to the table. Not everyone is meant for your table and vice versa. Treat yourself, don’t cheat yourself.