Quit complaining about what he, she or they did to you. We’ve all been through something. Yes it hurts, but so too does a hangnail, paper cut, bruise, broken bone …to get to my point, this too shall pass. The pain lasts as long as you allow it to by focusing on it instead of a means to fix it. That bruise or broken bone eventually heals. It may very well leave a scar but with the proper treatment and effort, it will fade away and you will get better, and become once again, as good as new. Self love is the best love.